There are some things you can’t change. Despite people saying that you can change everything, the truth is you really can’t. Not to our knowledge at least. What you can change is probably a lot more than you think, but that’s another text.
You might not be able to change everything, but you can change your reaction to it.
In soccer, you can’t decide what tactics or even players your oponent is going to apply on field during your next game against them. You can decide to try to counter that tactic, or run by your own game. Those are your options.
That’s the case for all of these things that happen to us. We need to decide what type of person we want to be, and react in a way to become that person.